The old saying of 'He hit you because he likes you' is out-dated and dangerous.
Abuse does not equal love.
Teach your kids there are many ways to say, "I like you'.
- You are amazing at.
- 'You are a fantastic...
- 'I really like the way you smile, dance, paint, laugh, etc.'
- 'You are so clever, funny, smart, creative, etc.'
- 'I like you.'